Finding My "People": My Hunt for the "Best" Social Media Platform
If you're trying to build a brand, a project, or just a personal presence, you've heard the advice. It's 2025. You have to be on social media. That's it. That's the "help" you get. It’s like telling someone to "just get a job" without mentioning what field, what skills, or where to even look. For months, I was drowning in this advice. I had a passion project I was desperate to grow, and I knew the "followers" were out there. But where? I felt like I was standing in the middle of a digital food court, with everyone shouting at me to try their platform. "TikTok is where the views are!" "Instagram is the king of aesthetics!" "LinkedIn is for 'real' connections!" "Don't forget X (Twitter) for real-time engagement!" So, I did what any overwhelmed person would do. I tried to be everywhere at once. And it was a disaster. I called it my "Social Media Gauntlet." On Instagram, I'd ...